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Re: Fears?
« Reply #100 on: August 08, 2018, 09:31:35 pm »
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I can relate to this a lot, maybe buy a white noise machine? When I had issues with sleeping because of silence, my mom bought a room moisturizer that made noise, it really helped

I fall asleep to music, Fredric Chopin most of the time. It's just before going to sleep that get's me really anxious and paranoid.
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #101 on: August 10, 2018, 10:41:37 pm »
I think I'm afraid of the dark. Only pitch darkness though
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #102 on: August 11, 2018, 01:49:42 am »
that one day i will be unable to distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy permanently.
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #103 on: August 11, 2018, 09:53:03 am »
that one day i will be unable to distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy permanently.

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Re: Fears?
« Reply #104 on: August 11, 2018, 10:38:52 am »
That everyone secretly hates me and finds me annoying

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Re: Fears?
« Reply #105 on: August 11, 2018, 03:15:53 pm »
that one day i will be unable to distinguish the difference between reality and fantasy permanently.

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Re: Fears?
« Reply #106 on: August 11, 2018, 03:30:05 pm »
I’m afraid of growing up.
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #107 on: August 11, 2018, 05:30:50 pm »
Scaring people away
Me
People hating me
Bugs
The dark to an extent
The future
The past

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Re: Fears?
« Reply #108 on: August 11, 2018, 05:40:43 pm »
Everyone hating me, getting/having a bad reputation, my doubt, my decisions
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #109 on: August 11, 2018, 10:29:20 pm »
I have a phobia of really loud noises haha
Not like fireworks and stuff, but really loud
I'll have a full on panic attack if I'm, for instance, around those big fast military jets when they're flying, because if you've ever heard those things before, it's like a freaking explosion
But also anything that makes a sound close to that intensity
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #110 on: August 11, 2018, 11:13:35 pm »
^ Same. Except I'm afraid of any loud noises, including fireworks and thunder/lightning. Like, I get so scared when storms happen. And I freak out during the 4th of July because of the fireworks.
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #111 on: August 14, 2018, 08:00:29 pm »
When certain people don’t want to/never make an effort to engage/talk with me, it makes me fear that they automatically hate me.. I know this sounds super self-centered but if people aren’t wanting to interact with me, then I don’t really want to have anything to do with them as well ? It’s something I’ve thought a lot before this upcoming school year. Also for people who I’ve seen for a long time (>1 year) but they never tried to get to know me I assume that they have some sort of vendetta against me ahahah, like I know that people can’t be friends with everyone but it’s my insecurity that kills me in the inside over and over.  Idk and I know it’s not really fair for me to judge people like that, it’s probably just because of a situation I had in which my only “friend” during a bad year in my life wouldn’t engage with me at all and that gave me a lot of anxiety and hatred. So when people don’t want to talk to me or make an effort to at least know me, it makes me think they hate me instantly...
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #112 on: August 14, 2018, 09:11:53 pm »
When certain people don’t want to/never make an effort to engage/talk with me, it makes me fear that they automatically hate me.. I know this sounds super self-centered but if people aren’t wanting to interact with me, then I don’t really want to have anything to do with them as well ? It’s something I’ve thought a lot before this upcoming school year. Also for people who I’ve seen for a long time (>1 year) but they never tried to get to know me I assume that they have some sort of vendetta against me ahahah, like I know that people can’t be friends with everyone but it’s my insecurity that kills me in the inside over and over.  Idk and I know it’s not really fair for me to judge people like that, it’s probably just because of a situation I had in which my only “friend” during a bad year in my life wouldn’t engage with me at all and that gave me a lot of anxiety and hatred. So when people don’t want to talk to me or make an effort to at least know me, it makes me think they hate me instantly...

I'm so sorry you feel this way, I actually felt this too a few years ago. Of course, we're all here for you when you need us. I honestly don't think people hate you, I'm actually guilty of not engaging with friends myself, and I think it's more so them being distracted or too lazy or shy to make conversation. I think it's perfectly valid to feel the way you do about people as well. Obviously, they should make more of an effort to know you and be a good friend, but, just going off of the person I know you as, their lack of effort isn't due to them hating you. You're too amazing! I think it's their own insecurity preventing them from engaging with you. Again, I'm sorry your the victim of feeling this way, I know how it feels. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm your girl! Love you Taxi  :pawheart: :cookie:
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #113 on: August 15, 2018, 10:58:15 am »
When certain people don’t want to/never make an effort to engage/talk with me, it makes me fear that they automatically hate me.. I know this sounds super self-centered but if people aren’t wanting to interact with me, then I don’t really want to have anything to do with them as well ? It’s something I’ve thought a lot before this upcoming school year. Also for people who I’ve seen for a long time (>1 year) but they never tried to get to know me I assume that they have some sort of vendetta against me ahahah, like I know that people can’t be friends with everyone but it’s my insecurity that kills me in the inside over and over.  Idk and I know it’s not really fair for me to judge people like that, it’s probably just because of a situation I had in which my only “friend” during a bad year in my life wouldn’t engage with me at all and that gave me a lot of anxiety and hatred. So when people don’t want to talk to me or make an effort to at least know me, it makes me think they hate me instantly...

I'm so sorry you feel this way, I actually felt this too a few years ago. Of course, we're all here for you when you need us. I honestly don't think people hate you, I'm actually guilty of not engaging with friends myself, and I think it's more so them being distracted or too lazy or shy to make conversation. I think it's perfectly valid to feel the way you do about people as well. Obviously, they should make more of an effort to know you and be a good friend, but, just going off of the person I know you as, their lack of effort isn't due to them hating you. You're too amazing! I think it's their own insecurity preventing them from engaging with you. Again, I'm sorry your the victim of feeling this way, I know how it feels. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm your girl! Love you Taxi  :pawheart: :cookie:

Thank you so much Aspen, aaa this made my day so much, your kind words really help me feel better, I really appreciate the advice and consolation. <3 you’re so sweet, love you Aspen!
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Re: Fears?
« Reply #114 on: August 15, 2018, 11:23:49 am »
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Thank you so much Aspen, aaa this made my day so much, your kind words really help me feel better, I really appreciate the advice and consolation. <3 you’re so sweet, love you Aspen!

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