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Offline Eddy

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Should children have more accidents?
« on: July 13, 2007, 06:34:51 pm »
The Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents (RoSPA) recently released a press statement saying that "Children need to have more accidents".

http://www.rospa.com/news/releases/2007/pr536_11_06_07_water.htm

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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #1 on: July 13, 2007, 06:41:19 pm »
I agree wholeheartedly. I've known 'bubble kids' before, and it's sad how poorly they can function in a normal environment.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #2 on: July 13, 2007, 07:01:39 pm »
Yes. I've been quite annoyed by the over secure environment some kids seem to be growing up in. Like AKlover said, those kids just seem to "function poorly in a normal environment".

In addition to the physical accidents psychological accidents are important as well. Too many parents keep their kids "safe" from them. Then they get in big trouble when bigger since they don't know how to handle those kinds of situations. I'd say it's better to have a few heart breaks and stuff when you still have lots of people to support you.

I've also seen cases where the parents keep their children too "safe" from all kinds of viruses and stuff. Like when their blanket falls on the floor, they wash it immediately. Come on! That's just hurting the kid. Making his immune system weaker. Then you get a person who is always ill. Not fun. I myself am an extremely unclean person. But I think that's part of why I'm practically never ill.

I don't think I myself grew up (or am growing up) in a too secure and restricted environment. I fell off trees and small cliffs a lot when I was younger. I don't consider myself as overcareful either. I have no problem doing stuff many people (at least of my age) are afraid of. What's the point of living long if you just sit inside four walls being bored?

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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #3 on: July 13, 2007, 09:26:08 pm »
I was honestly surprised when I understood that according to that press release, children are not allowed to play outside. That's kinda a given for me, what kind of parents would disallow the combination of fresh air and playing? I can't think of a more healthy combination for a child.

Atte's got the right idea, and besides agreeing and saying that I too grew up in a relatively unrestrictive environment and thereby learned to tackle the kind of problems a child would meet in such a situation, pretty much all I can add to that would be that statistics show that, in average, keeping a child away from all danger will shorten it's lifespan (not counting deaths of children below 6) compared to allowing it to do dangerous stuff. Probably because of no problem solving skill, immune system, and will to live.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #4 on: July 14, 2007, 02:27:58 am »
I completely agree!  When I was little my parents went on the concept of "A little bit of dirt never hurt anyone"!  And my immune system is fairly good because of it.
I cant imagine a childhood not being able to go out, play, explore and have fun with friends to be honest.  And if I hadnt have had my accidents, I wouldnt have learned from my mistakes etc.

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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #5 on: July 14, 2007, 02:42:16 am »
I know teens who don't do very much things outside their family...and as a result...don't know much about serious issues in life. Like how they were the only ones in the psychology class to not know what "affirmative action" is (and they are black, and 17)...and that typifies just how sheltered they are from things. Their parents buy their cars for them...and coddle and allow them to go without jobs etc...so that they are poorly equipped to deal with rl.

But enough about that...kids need to be exposed to more evils in the world instead of their parents sheltering them from things which might be contrary to what ever belief system the parents came up with.

I for one...have done a lot of things on my own (no one showed me the way to the furry fandom, I found out about sexual deviancy on my own and against my parent's wishes). I knew the dangers of being ignorant...and I do things to prevent it.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #6 on: July 14, 2007, 02:48:15 am »
I agree on a general standpoint, though I myself would not have liked to play outside any more than I was forced to as a child.
     Being in this desert, it was hot, miserable, and nearly taught me to hate the outdoors after seeing it as an ugly and painful place, and burning my hands on the metal playground equipment. But in the more hospitable environments of the world, I fully agree that kids should get outside and be in the midst of some risk. I worry less for the kids than the parents who do have some legitimate worrying about kids.
     But I know a friend who's Mother is still paranoid about her safety.
My friend is 14 years old, physically fit, almost unusually tough, and very cautious and careful, yet her Mother is always irrationally afraid of the worst happening.
     So I say some parents are being overprotective, but my question is, how young should kids be allowed in the world? Obviously one-year-olds are probably going to injure themselves without learning.

Also, when it comes to the germy thing, I make a point of not caring if I've dropped food on the floor in my home or even outside on grass, because I want to keep my immune system from "forgetting" how to deal with germs, and for this, I rarely get sick.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #7 on: July 14, 2007, 04:20:32 pm »
hehe.  At first I thought this was about toilet training.

Somebody disagree already!  I agree with RoSPA here.

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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #8 on: July 14, 2007, 04:30:22 pm »
So did I earz....look at where our minds are lol...
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #9 on: July 16, 2007, 01:00:18 am »
I dont know if there's much to disagree about.  I have to say, I love the outdoors, and I do agree with the article that many life lessons can be taught simply by playing out in the wild.

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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #10 on: July 16, 2007, 02:29:10 am »
I mean, I'm sure with our... particular nature we of all people might conceivably be biased in an argument for or against nature anyway.
Which also maybe brings up, what about big city kids? Do we let them play in traffic, and learn life lessons from random delusional street crazies?
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #11 on: July 16, 2007, 06:50:28 am »
I would say yes, but that's were the responsibility falls on parents, they should tell their kids about traffic sense and to avoid street crazies. They still get better life experiences then they would sitting home watching tv and playing computer games all day...
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #12 on: July 16, 2007, 01:17:04 pm »
yup. It's all about learning how to behave in the environ ment you live in, so if the environment is a city it still applies.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #13 on: July 16, 2007, 05:39:22 pm »
I for one almost think the possible respiratory ailments possible from a place like that alone would warrant staying in... But that's just me.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #14 on: July 16, 2007, 06:07:18 pm »
houses don't magically make the air mountain fresh, and regardless, it's still a good idea to know hpw to operate where you live.
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Re: Should children have more accidents?
« Reply #15 on: July 16, 2007, 06:55:14 pm »
True enough, that I cannot argue with sensibly.
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