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Friends in your life
« on: March 29, 2016, 10:39:57 am »
I've been wondering: how much do people usually spend time with their friends? How many friends do people have? And how do people make friends? I'm kinda curious.

I myself have friends at school but don't spend any time with them in my free time. I used to have some friends at free time too but we just kinda grew apart as we never did anything fun really. Once I just bumped into some stranger and started chatting with them and we became friends. It was weird, nothing like the usual me, though it happened years ago.

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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #1 on: March 29, 2016, 11:42:35 am »
After I moved to an online high school most of my friends kind of dropped me. It's like if I don't see you five times a week you don't exist. For a while it was just me and my now ex, he's the only one that really saw me frequently outside of school, like every other day. I broke up with him not too long ago so I don't really have a person that's close that I can go see. Doesn't really bother me toooo much.

I'd say I have 2 very very close friends who I love and adore, then a handful of other people I talk to. All of the people I talk to are guys, don't really have a single girl that I'm close to. x( I've met all of them online but I see one of my close friends/boyfriend fairly often and have plans to see my other close friend in July!

I don't think I really have a way to make friends, I kinda just throw myself out there and if someone wants to talk I gladly respond. I do have pretty bad anxiety so it's a bit harder for me than some people but I make it work!
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #2 on: March 29, 2016, 12:45:58 pm »
I'm pretty bad with friends, I mostly talk casually to people : P I like to chat though heh
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #3 on: March 29, 2016, 01:06:53 pm »
I spend quite a bit of time with my friends at school and once in a while I hangout with them outside of school
To be honest I only have a few but they are true friends

Most of my new buddies I meet online or at dance class I guess :p

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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #4 on: March 29, 2016, 04:35:53 pm »
I've got 2 or 3 close friends, and I see them almost weekly. I actually met them while serving a Mormon mission. Most of my friends from before aren't in contact anymore. Difficulties of living counties apart, don'cha know.

On the plus side, one of them will be one of my roommates in about a month! :D
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #5 on: March 29, 2016, 10:03:44 pm »
Living an hour away from school is tough when it comes to hanging out with friends. I have a few good friends at school but we hardly hang much out of school. My living situation is definitely a hindrance because we only have one car and my parents dont have a bunch of free time to drive me up there. Theres still hope though, a train line just got put up that stretches from my house to my school and I might be getting my drivers license this summer *crosses fingers*
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #6 on: March 29, 2016, 10:35:35 pm »
Most of my friends I've had since I was little, so they're used to the fact that I don't get out much, lol. I see them like once a week maybe
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #7 on: March 29, 2016, 11:35:59 pm »
I have to change my present friends about every 4 years. Most of the time, my friends from before don't really stay that much in touch either. Right now, I don't really have anybody that I would consider 'friend' where I live.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #8 on: March 29, 2016, 11:53:04 pm »
I don't really have friends. I'm mostly a loner.

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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #9 on: March 31, 2016, 12:13:49 am »
All my real friends are online, any ones that I have in real life are people who feel sorry for me, or people who just want to use my devices. I like to spend a lot of time with my real friends :3
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #10 on: March 31, 2016, 12:26:21 am »
I've got 2 small friend groups, a lunch/othertimes group, and an art/yet-to-be-othertimes group. I have 3 people in the first, and 5 friends in the latter. and I've got 1-2 friends who aren't in a group.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #11 on: April 01, 2016, 11:41:45 pm »
I've got about Nine friends that I can depend on. And about two I really hang out with. (I've got more, like in class friends but outside we're distanced.)

I hang out with five of them almost everyday after school. One of them I hang out with on Wednesdays. Three of them I see from time to time.

I usually don't make any new friends... Now that I think about it. Usually it's one person is connected to the next, and so, like I meet one person, and I become friends with their friend. I don't really remember how I made the original friend lol. But if I were to go about making friends, it's usually through school and being partnered up, or sitting next to me.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #12 on: April 02, 2016, 03:05:04 pm »
I have a lot of friends online, but in real life I have a small group of 2 people I hang out with daily. I can depend on them pretty well, and I've known them for a while (one of them I've been good friends with since preschool). I have one friend I don't get to see a lot, but she's really really cool.

I also have a few people at school I kinda talk with sometimes and can depend on, but I don't really see them being the kind of people I would want to connect with outside of school and otherwise hang out with. I do want to be able to email these two people I talk with at lunch, though, because they're both really funny and we always laugh over cringey internet stuff together. I'll miss them over the summer.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #13 on: April 02, 2016, 11:04:30 pm »
I have one main group of friends IRL, they are a bunch of memers, so the group can get idiotic at times. I also have the online friends group, they chill. Then there is a bunch of random other people I talk with IRL.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #14 on: April 03, 2016, 12:26:53 am »
I don't really have any friends, and like no friends irl anymore. I mean I talk to people every now and then but I wouldn't call them friends or at least not close friends as I don't talk to them all that much due to my stupid anxiety x.x The only person I talk to on a near daily basis is my boyfriend.
I just kinda wait for people to start a conversation with me and hope my anxiety or forgetfulness doesn't suddenly end the conversation. Very rarely will I send the first message to someone I don't know at all. This is not the best way to go about making friends but I have found some pretty cool people surprisingly.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #15 on: April 03, 2016, 06:04:52 pm »
I have a few friends I usually talk to in school, but apart from that we don't really hang out.

Although there is one good friend of mine who lives close to me, we usually talk and of recent are meeting up and hanging out a lot more than we used to.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #16 on: April 03, 2016, 09:46:30 pm »
I guess I don't really have any friends. I have a group of people who I hang out with a lunch at school but they always "forget" to invite me to go places with them and rarely respond to my texts to talk or do things so yah I guess they don't really consider me their friend, I'm just that annoying girl. And I'm terrible at talking to people online, it makes me anxious for no reason and I'm terrible at responding and stuff so yah
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #17 on: April 03, 2016, 09:57:55 pm »
Most of my friends come and go. I have been trying to get in with this one group but I don't think they really like me that much.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #18 on: June 22, 2017, 10:19:33 am »
I don't really have many friends, mostly acquaintances if anything. Like I do have people that I have occasionally hung out with or i talk to in class or clubs. That's about it I'm not that close to anyone perhaps a few people online though.
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Re: Friends in your life
« Reply #19 on: June 22, 2017, 10:23:59 am »
I have one RL friend, and he's going to a different school next year. I've a few online friends, but to be honest, in real life, I know a lot of people, but pretty much none that I could call a friend.
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